"To see clearly, just change the direction of your gaze." Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

When you are in front of a mirror: How do you see yourself? Winner or Loser?

Some people have a losing view of them, they see themselves as "miserable", "worms" and as derogatory as they can be. They live under the “ugly duckling” syndrome and it is reinforced every time they have a setback or financial, emotional, sentimental or professional and even spiritual failure.

People who see themselves as losers play the role of the victim, they live reacting and blaming everyone they can for the life they are leading. His favorite song "poor me, I had to suffer." The focus of his life is suffering, pain, misery, tragedy, shame, guilt. They play the role of the victim so well that they are worthy of a film academy award. The saddest thing is that he thinks he will never get out of his losing situation.

Do you have a losing look? Would you like to switch to a winning look?

People with winning looks always take responsibility for their lives and are willing to overcome any obstacles along the way. This means that they will have to learn new skills, adapt to change, open their minds and hearts to new possibilities.

A person who sees himself as a winner recognizes that life is hard, and always seeks to find a new path, a new approach. His favorite song "must be a way to do it." Definitely having a winning look is a tremendous choice and determination to excel yourself.

"What will make you a winner or a loser is the vision you have of yourself." Pedro Sifontes

Have you heard the phrase "The eyes are the windows to the soul", it is very true, the personality of the individual is reflected there. Jesus Christ also showed us this truth  “Your eye is a lamp that gives light to your body. When your eye is good, your whole body is full of light; But when your eye is bad, your whole body is full of darkness. And if the light you think you have is actually darkness, how thick is that darkness! "

How is your eye with respect to you?

Our eyes can reflect light or darkness, victory or defeat, it all depends on the food that I give to my life, mind, soul. If I feed her with positive things I will achieve positive things, remember the beginning "Everything we sow, we reap."

The great works, the great inventions, the wonderful or amazing things that we can see are the results of a vision, of people who kept a winning look at life. The winning look is the look of confidence, it is the look of faith.

I ask you now, which look do you choose today?

Are you ready to stop blaming yourself? Are you willing to seek help to see clearly or better the potential that is in you?

I must confess that there are circumstances in our lives that attract the losing gaze, the key is not to stagnate but to get up with a winning gaze loaded with a powerful vision. The vision should always lead you to look ahead, to go forward, to conquer peaks and mountains. When there is good vision you can get to the desired place.

You can have a winning look and if you need help write to me [email protected]

In love and leadership,

Pedro Sifontes
Coach & Lecturer
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